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            <author>nobody@vox.com(Cecily DeVille)</author>
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        Saturday? Paddling with Poppy  River: peaked and swollen Soundtrack:        It&#39;s been a while since I&#39;ve blogged about the condition of the respective love lives DeVille, I know, but the situation has been such that it defies the confines of t...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>     Source: courant.com  Most of what we hear about polygamy has to do with stomach-turning situations like the recently raided West Texas ranch where it is believed that members of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints — a br...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>      Check this, from a F.O.A.F. Handy, no?  The idea of the spectrum is that it gives a 1 to 10 rating of the intensity between &quot;no&quot; and &quot;yes&quot;. It can be useful because not only will it help you gauge your own intensity, it can make it easier to expr...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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     An unusual set of circumstances today had me reviewing my list of NLP enabled boyfriends ( the most recent two qualify to be sure, with a couple of stragglers in the maybe/has psych degree column, ((don&#39;t even get me started on that!))) and why t...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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      Dear Ones, fantastic weekend all around! First weekend of NLP practitioner training was both entertaining &amp; informative. Clever opted to attend the trainings as well, which is very exciting, as we have one another to engage as well informed guin...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>     Source: polyamory community at LiveJournal  When I was but a wee lad in my early twenties, and not wise in the ways of polyamory, I used to scoff at the ideas of people falling into relatively easy to identify clichés.  Especially among the poly c...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>     By Brian Frederick  1. Tell the Truth. Lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is built on honesty. Honesty isn&#39;t hard and it&#39;s a good habit. Bite the bullet, tell the truth. If your relationship can&#39;t weather it, you are in the wrong rela...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>     Source: Chicago Sun Times  When Tilda Swinton won the best supporting actress Oscar for &quot;Michael Clayton,&quot; there wasn&#39;t too much talk about what designer she was wearing.  But people were curious about her date.  Swinton, 47, brought along 29-year...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <description>     Source: Staten Island Advance  It&#39;s difficult for Rose Fox to watch romance movies. At the end, she is always disappointed when the protagonist is forced to decide between two love interests. She wonders: Why not choose both?  Ms. Fox, 29, is poly...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 15:09:06 -0700</pubDate>         
            
            <description>     Source: Diamondback Online  Sophomore computer science major Seth Weinstein has two girlfriends: One he sees during the school year, and the other when at home in Columbia.  But don&#39;t get him confused for a player or even a cheater - he&#39;s simply p...    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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